If Jesus loved the murderer on the cross next to him, I would be willing to bet that he loves gays as well. God loves the glutton and the lustful (both of which are addressed in the Bible more than homosexuality. There is not a person on this earth that has fallen short of the glory of God and there is not a person that God doesn't or can't love.
It is hard to grasp but God even loves Fred Phelps.
Even though I do believe his hate makes God soooooo Sad.